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Guides, advice and seasonal features from the world of kink, written to help you play safely and confidently.

Coiled bundles of natural jute rope and red rope on a dark wooden floor beside safety shears

Rope & Bondage · 8 min read

A Beginner's Guide to Shibari: Japanese Rope Bondage

Shibari is the art of Japanese rope bondage, part craft, part connection. Here is where it comes from, what rope to choose, how to tie safely and how to start learning.

Polished stainless steel sounds in a velvet-lined case beside black nitrile gloves

Medical Play · 7 min read

The Joy of Female Sounding: A Beginner's Guide to Urethral Play

Female sounding is one of the more niche corners of medical play. Here is why people love it, what you need, and how to explore it safely and hygienically.

An open leather notebook and pen beside red rope, leather cuffs and a candle on a dark table

Play & Safety · 9 min read

How to Plan a BDSM Scene: Negotiation, Safety and Aftercare

Great scenes rarely happen by accident. Here is a step-by-step guide to negotiating, preparing, playing and winding down, so everyone leaves feeling safe and satisfied.

A steel padlock and antique key on dark leather among autumn leaves

Chastity · 7 min read

What Is Locktober? A Guide to the October Chastity Challenge

Locktober is the kink community's month-long chastity challenge. Here is what it involves, how to choose a device, and how to stay safe for all 31 days.