Play & Party
Parties, club nights and festivals
Fetish club nights, play parties, balls and galas, kink festivals and swingers events from around the world. Most events have a dress code, an age limit and their own rules, and many only share the venue with ticket holders. Dates come from public announcements, so always check the original listing before you buy tickets or travel.
56 upcoming events up to 23 October 2026
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Encuentro BDSMK 24/7
Festival or weekendVenue shared with ticket holders, Bogotá, Bogotá, Colombia
Thu 15 Oct to Sat 17 Oct
A three day BDSM and kink gathering with workshops, a kinky market and a play party.
View announcement on encuentrobdsmk247.com (opens in a new tab) - Thu15Oct
Leather & Fetish Pride Netherlands 2026
Festival or weekendAkhnaton, IJLand and Amsterdam Noord, Amsterdam, North Holland, Netherlands
Thu 15 Oct to Mon 19 Oct
Organised by Leather Pride
A five day leather and fetish festival in Amsterdam featuring title competitions and major fetish parties.
View announcement on leatherpride.nl (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Fetish & BDSM Festival XIV
Festival or weekendHangar 43, Baasrode, East Flanders, Belgium
Fri 16 Oct to Sat 17 Oct
Organised by Taurus Fetish & BDSM Events
A two day fetish and BDSM festival for kink visitors.
View announcement on fetishfestival.be (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
FemDom-Abend mit Aurora Mystique
Play partyDas Séparée, Vienna, Vienna, Austria · 18:30
Organised by DARKtoyzzz
An exclusive evening dedicated to female domination and sadism.
View announcement on joyclub.de (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Fetishism × Techno
Fetish club nightWhite Space Lab, Shibuya, Kanto, Japan · 19:00
Organised by experiment
A fetish and techno night with a recommended dress code of fetish, gothic, BDSM or black.
View announcement on experiment-re-cords.jp (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Viernes Social BDSM
Other kink eventClaustro TF, Santa Cruz de Tenerife, Canary Islands, Spain · 19:00
A BDSM social evening for people interested in the local dungeon scene.
View announcement on bdsmhoy.com (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Club-CMS-Urdorf
Fetish club nightClub-CMS-Urdorf, Urdorf, Zurich, Switzerland · 20:00
Organised by JOYclub
Treffpunkt in BDSM-stylish surroundings where all kinds of BDSM are welcome and the dress code is appropriate.
View announcement on joyclub.de (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Meltdown
Fetish club nightIJland, Amsterdam, North Holland, Netherlands · 20:00
Organised by Leather Pride
A fetish party in Amsterdam held as part of Leather & Fetish Pride.
View announcement on leatherpride.nl (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Hot Wife & Sexy Bull Play Party
Play partySpa Intimo Lifestyles, Belgrade, Belgrade, Serbia · 21:00
Organised by Spa Intimo Club
A play party for couples and singles at Spa Intimo.
View announcement on intimoclub.net (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
The Hole con Lola
Swingers eventOkapiSw Spa&Club, Madrid, Madrid, Spain · 22:00
An exclusive swingers night for women and couples with voyeurism and play.
View announcement on joyclub.com (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Krudo Party
Fetish club nightSkyline Club Roma, Roma, Lazio, Italy · 22:30
Organised by Skyline Club Roma
A fetish dress code club night with a naked and underwear theme.
View announcement on skylineclubroma.it (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Buenos Aires BDSM Film Fest Argentina
Festival or weekendCasa Brandon and El Escándalo Café, Buenos Aires, Buenos Aires City, Argentina
Organised by CONDESA Artes
A BDSM and fetish film festival with screenings, talks, live performances and workshops for adults.
View announcement on infobae.com (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Domination Stockholm 2026
Festival or weekendSLM Stockholm, Stockholm, Stockholm, Sweden
Fri 16 Oct to Sun 18 Oct
Organised by Domination Stockholm
An 18 plus mixed gender queer focused BDSM weekend with workshops, a gear market, play parties and a brunch.
View announcement on nortic.se (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Kinktoberfest 2026
Festival or weekendVenue shared with ticket holders, Albuquerque, New Mexico, United States
Organised by thecage.co
A kink weekend in Albuquerque with education classes, vendors and play parties.
View announcement on thecage.co (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Kinky Kollege: Homecoming 2026
Festival or weekendVenue shared with ticket holders, Chicago, Illinois, United States
Fri 16 Oct to Sun 18 Oct
Organised by eastcoastkinkevents.com
An educational kink conference with workshops and play parties in Chicago.
View announcement on eastcoastkinkevents.com (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
VORT-X // Mission 001 - First Contact
Festival or weekendConfessions, Barrio and city centre locations, Brussels, Brussels, Belgium
Fri 16 Oct to Sun 18 Oct
A three day fetish weekend in Brussels for the LGBT+ and all genders fetish community.
View announcement on visit.brussels (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
XTASIS+ [BDSM - FETISH - KINKY]
Festival or weekendSecret location, Barcelona, Catalonia, Spain · 00:00
Organised by XTASIS+
A BDSM, fetish and kinky festival with a dress code and play room for attendees.
View announcement on bdsmhoy.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
DRUM Weekend Boat Tour
Other kink eventSingel 250, Amsterdam, North Holland, Netherlands · 12:00
Organised by Dutch Rubbermen
A fetish themed boat tour through the canals of Amsterdam.
View announcement on qmeet.nl (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Fetish Flea Market 2026 Bears Amsterdam
Other kink eventBears Amsterdam, Amsterdam, North Holland, Netherlands · 13:00
Organised by Bears Amsterdam
A fetish flea market held during Leather & Fetish Pride for gear and leather items.
View announcement on qmeet.nl (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
【高雄】BDSM遠足
Play partyVenue shared with ticket holders, Kaohsiung, Kaohsiung, Taiwan · 14:00
Organised by BDSM遠足
A monthly Kaohsiung BDSM gathering for practice, observation and gear appreciation.
View announcement on todo.smertw.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Kink Playnight
Play partyClub More, Helsinki, Uusimaa, Finland · 18:00
Organised by Club More
A relaxed kink and BDSM play night for adults with separate session areas, a calming room and a lounge area.
View announcement on club-more.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Leather, Lace, & Latex - A Triple L Kink Party
Play partyThe Auricle Venue & Bar, Canton, Ohio, United States
Sat 17 Oct to Sun 18 Oct
Organised by Haus of Kink
A fetish party in Canton for leather, lace and latex attire.
View announcement on eventbrite.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Ordres et supplices : Play Night
Play partyLe Trafick, Lausanne, Vaud, Switzerland · 19:30
Organised by Le Trafick
An immersive BDSM play night focused on practices, sensations and power dynamics.
View announcement on joyclub.de (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
EJ's Hallowe’en Party
Swingers eventEJ's Club, Dublin, Dublin, Ireland · 20:00
Organised by EJ's Club
A themed swingers party for verified adults.
View announcement on ejsclub.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Fetish Social @ Confessions
Fetish club nightConfessions, Brussels, Brussels, Belgium
Sat 17 Oct to Sun 18 Oct
Organised by MSC Belgium
A fetish social at Confessions in Brussels for kink visitors.
View announcement on mscbelgium.be (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Mr Rubber EU 2027 Election
Ball or galaIJland, Amsterdam, North Holland, Netherlands · 20:00
Organised by Dutch Rubbermen
The European rubber title election held during Leather & Fetish Pride in Amsterdam.
View announcement on leatherpride.nl (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
DIAMONDS Are Forever
Swingers eventSinful House Bangkok, Bangkok, Bangkok, Thailand · 21:00
Organised by Sinful House
A lifestyle party for members with a glamorous theme in Bangkok.
View announcement on sdc.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Sexy Freaky Halloween Swingers Party
Swingers eventVenue shared with ticket holders, Stockton, California, United States
Sat 17 Oct to Sun 18 Oct
Organised by Swing.com
A swingers Halloween house party in Stockton with multiple playrooms and a BYOB policy.
View announcement on swing.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Szombat esti paráznaság
Swingers eventSwinger For You Swinger Club, Budapest, Budapest, Hungary · 21:00
Organised by Swinger For You
A Saturday night swinger party for members at the Buda club.
View announcement on swingerklub.hu (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
‘The Great Gatsby Experience’ Sexy Libra Edition
Swingers eventSpa Intimo Lifestyles, Belgrade, Belgrade, Serbia · 21:00
Organised by Spa Intimo Club
A themed swingers party with a sexy 90s R&B atmosphere for couples.
View announcement on intimoclub.net (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Gangbang party
Swingers eventLabirintus Swinger Club, Budapest, Budapest, Hungary · 22:00
Organised by Labirintus Swinger Club
A swinger party focused on gangbang play at the Budapest club.
View announcement on labirintusswingerklub.hu (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
KLAUW x Los Angles
Fetish club nightClub Export, Rotterdam, South Holland, Netherlands · 22:00
Organised by KLAUW
A Rotterdam club night with music, performances and a fetish friendly atmosphere.
View announcement on qmeet.nl (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Pitbull Vienna 2026
Fetish club nightClub Titanic, Vienna, Vienna, Austria · 22:00
Organised by Pitbull Vienna
A singlet and jock party for bears, fetish fans and their admirers.
View announcement on gaytravel4u.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Lemon Gag Fetish Party
Fetish club nightSala Garaje Beat Club, Murcia, Murcia, Spain · 23:00
Organised by Lemon Gag
A fetish party with kink and techno at Garaje Beat Club.
View announcement on bdsmhoy.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Buenos Aires BDSM Film Fest Argentina
Festival or weekendCasa Brandon and El Escándalo Café, Buenos Aires, Buenos Aires City, Argentina
Organised by CONDESA Artes
A BDSM and fetish film festival with screenings, talks, live performances and workshops for adults.
View announcement on infobae.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Naughty School Girl Party
Swingers eventSecret Pleasures, Emmaus, Pennsylvania, United States
Organised by eastcoastkinkevents.com
A themed adult party at Secret Pleasures in Emmaus.
View announcement on eastcoastkinkevents.com (opens in a new tab) - Sun18Oct
deepspot RopeJam
Play partyVenue shared with ticket holders, Ueno, Kanto, Japan · 13:00
Organised by deepspot
A shibari and BDSM event for rope and fetish fans.
View announcement on deepspot.jp (opens in a new tab) - Sun18Oct
Freedomina
Play partyClub Prive Milano Nautilus, Milano, Lombardy, Italy · 15:00
Organised by Club Prive Milano Nautilus
A monthly femdom play party for dominant women and submissives.
View announcement on clubprivemilano.it (opens in a new tab) - Sun18Oct
‘The SWINGER Hot Wives of SUNDAY’ MFM Sunday
Swingers eventSpa Intimo Lifestyles, Belgrade, Belgrade, Serbia · 21:00
Organised by Spa Intimo Club
A Sunday swingers night for hot wives, couples and single men.
View announcement on intimoclub.net (opens in a new tab) - Sun18Oct
Buenos Aires BDSM Film Fest Argentina
Festival or weekendCasa Brandon and El Escándalo Café, Buenos Aires, Buenos Aires City, Argentina
Organised by CONDESA Artes
A BDSM and fetish film festival with screenings, talks, live performances and workshops for adults.
View announcement on infobae.com (opens in a new tab) - Mon19Oct
Szemérmetlen szauna szeánsz
Swingers eventSwinger For You Swinger Club, Budapest, Budapest, Hungary · 17:00
Organised by Swinger For You
A members only sauna session with swinging and jacuzzi use.
View announcement on swingerklub.hu (opens in a new tab) - Mon19Oct
Buenos Aires BDSM Film Fest Argentina
Festival or weekendCasa Brandon and El Escándalo Café, Buenos Aires, Buenos Aires City, Argentina
Organised by CONDESA Artes
A BDSM and fetish film festival with screenings, talks, live performances and workshops for adults.
View announcement on infobae.com (opens in a new tab) - Tue20Oct
BIOLOGY BI-SWING PARTY
Swingers eventSpa Intimo Lifestyles, Belgrade, Belgrade, Serbia · 19:00
Organised by Spa Intimo Club
A swing lifestyle party for couples and like-minded adults.
View announcement on intimoclub.net (opens in a new tab) - Wed21Oct
‘GANGBANG’ ostvarenje snova!
Swingers eventSpa Intimo Lifestyles, Belgrade, Belgrade, Serbia · 19:00
Organised by Spa Intimo Club
A themed adult party for swingers and couples.
View announcement on intimoclub.net (opens in a new tab) - Thu22Oct
Swinger & Gangbang
Swingers eventSwinger For You Swinger Club, Budapest, Budapest, Hungary · 20:00
Organised by Swinger For You
A private swinger night for members with gangbang play and a strict door policy.
View announcement on swingerklub.hu (opens in a new tab) - Thu22Oct
Kimberli Grand
Play partyDungeon Club, Tel Aviv, Central District, Israel · 21:00
Organised by Dungeon
A femdom themed play party for guests aged 18 and over.
View announcement on thecage.co.il (opens in a new tab) - Thu22Oct
ONE NIGHT STAND Swinger Fling ČETVRTKOM
Swingers eventSpa Intimo Lifestyles, Belgrade, Belgrade, Serbia · 21:00
Organised by Spa Intimo Club
An erotic swingers night for couples and singles, with dress code encouraged.
View announcement on intimoclub.net (opens in a new tab) - Fri23Oct
EJ's Hallowe’en Social
Swingers eventEJ's Club, Dublin, Dublin, Ireland · 20:00
Organised by EJ's Club
A swingers social for verified adults.
View announcement on ejsclub.com (opens in a new tab) - Fri23Oct
KINKYBEATS - Back At Its Best
Fetish club nightkunstbar Köln, Cologne, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany · 21:00
Organised by KinkyBeats
A one off fetish party with a deep electronic sound in Cologne.
View announcement on fetisch.de (opens in a new tab) - Fri23Oct
Ruhás ismerkedős buli
Swingers eventSwinger For You Swinger Club, Budapest, Budapest, Hungary · 21:00
Organised by Swinger For You
A dressed mixer for members at the Buda swinger club.
View announcement on swingerklub.hu (opens in a new tab) - Fri23Oct
’50 nijansi SPA INTIMO’ Masquerade Couples Bash
Swingers eventSpa Intimo Lifestyles, Belgrade, Belgrade, Serbia · 21:00
Organised by Spa Intimo Club
A masquerade couples party in a swingers setting.
View announcement on intimoclub.net (opens in a new tab) - Fri23Oct
The Birdcage at Heaven
Fetish club nightHeaven, Zurich, Zurich, Switzerland · 23:00
Organised by Queer Switzerland
A fetish night with a full fetish or all black dress code after the Kink Social.
View announcement on queerswitzerland.ch (opens in a new tab) - Fri23Oct
616 Halloween Complete Two-Day Hotel Takeover
Swingers eventVenue shared with ticket holders, Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States
Fri 23 Oct to Sun 25 Oct
Organised by Swing.com
A lifestyle hotel takeover in Kalamazoo over two days.
View announcement on swing.com (opens in a new tab) - Fri23Oct
Dark Odyssey Surrender 2026
Festival or weekendVenue shared with ticket holders, San Jose, California, United States
Fri 23 Oct to Mon 26 Oct
Organised by eastcoastkinkevents.com
A kink convention weekend in San Jose.
View announcement on eastcoastkinkevents.com (opens in a new tab) - Fri23Oct
Halloween Fetish Ball 2026
Ball or galaVenue shared with ticket holders, Wilton Manors, Florida, United States
Organised by eastcoastkinkevents.com
A Halloween fetish ball in Wilton Manors.
View announcement on eastcoastkinkevents.com (opens in a new tab) - Fri23Oct
Wien in Schwarz 2026
Festival or weekendVenue shared with ticket holders, Vienna, Vienna, Austria
Fri 23 Oct to Mon 26 Oct
Organised by LMC Vienna
A four day fetish weekend for the gay fetish community with parties and events across Vienna.
View announcement on lmc-vienna.at (opens in a new tab)
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