Munches
Upcoming munches
A munch is a relaxed, no-pressure social meetup for people into kink and BDSM, usually in a pub, cafe or restaurant. No dress code, no play, just good company. Dates come from public announcements, so always check the original listing before you travel.
27 upcoming munches up to 22 October 2026
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- Fri16Oct
OpenMunch Ljubljana
Venue shared on request, Ljubljana, Central Slovenia (Ljubljana), Slovenia · 18:00
Organised by OpenMunch
An informal monthly meetup in Ljubljana for people interested in BDSM and kinky sexuality, held in a public venue and open to anyone.
View announcement on openmunch.eu (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Recovery in the Lifestyle
Deviance Tampa Bay, Largo, Florida, United States · 18:45
Organised by Deviance Tampa Bay
A free non play fellowship meeting for BDSM lifestyle people in recovery, and friends or partners may attend.
View announcement on meetup.com (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
TNG Milano
Tempio del Futuro Perduto, Milan, Lombardy, Italy · 20:00
Organised by TNG Milano
A social meeting for under 35s interested in BDSM and kinky topics, with a friendly informal atmosphere.
View announcement on milanokinky.com (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
The Whole Munch - Porto
Venue shared on request, Porto, Norte, Portugal · 22:00
Organised by The Whole
A vanilla setting social for kinksters, curious people and aficionados, with no dress code and no play.
View announcement on kinkcalendar.site (opens in a new tab) - Fri16Oct
Bratislavské BDSM stretnutie
Meanto, Bratislava, Bratislava, Slovakia
Organised by xBDSM
A social BDSM meetup for the community, held in a restaurant setting with food and drinks.
View announcement on xbdsm.sk (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Costume Making & Skillshare Social
Deviance Tampa Bay, Largo, Florida, United States · 14:00
Organised by Deviance Tampa Bay
A free social for the kink community to make costumes together and share skills.
View announcement on meetup.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Meet And Bark
LGBT+huset, Aarhus, Central Jutland, Denmark · 17:00
Organised by Puppy Danmark
A cosy social event for anyone interested in petplay, with coffee and snacks and no alcohol allowed on the premises.
View announcement on puppydanmark.dk (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Deviance Tampa Bay: Dom, sub, S/switch Roundtables
Deviance Tampa Bay, Largo, Florida, United States · 18:00
Organised by Deviance Tampa Bay
An open discussion and community connection event for dominant, submissive, and switch members.
View announcement on meetup.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Kesätossu
Saaristobaari, Turku, Southwest Finland, Finland · 18:00
Organised by Turun Baletti
An informal kinky munch for adults with no dress code and no play.
View announcement on bdsmbaari.net (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
feti+Plus MUNCH #4
Venue shared on request, Shinjuku, Kanto, Japan · 18:00
Organised by feti+Plus
A relaxed fetish and BDSM social where play is not held and newcomers are welcome.
View announcement on fetifun.com (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Munch do Viriato
Venue shared on request, Viseu, Centro, Portugal · 19:30
A vanilla setting social for kinksters from Viseu and beyond, with casual dress and no protocol.
View announcement on kinkcalendar.site (opens in a new tab) - Sat17Oct
Language Exchange & Munch Madrid
La Cruz de San Andrés, Madrid, Madrid, Spain
Organised by Language Exchange & Munch Madrid
A community meetup for people interested in kink and language exchange, held in a public venue.
View announcement on meetup.com (opens in a new tab) - Sun18Oct
deepspot RopeJam
PRIVATE STUDIO GATT, Ueno, Kanto, Japan · 13:00
Organised by deepspot
A fetish and BDSM social with rope and shibari themes.
View announcement on deepspot.jp (opens in a new tab) - Sun18Oct
Stockholm Queer Munch
Sidenkällaren, Stockholm, Stockholm, Sweden · 18:00
Organised by Black Planet
A queer kinky social night with no dress code.
View announcement on blackplanet.se (opens in a new tab) - Sun18Oct
The Barnet Munch Book Club
New York Cafe, Hampstead, London, United Kingdom · 18:30
A social for kinky readers and the curious, held in a public café.
View announcement on eventbrite.co.uk (opens in a new tab) - Mon19Oct
Regular 3rd Monday Westchester Poly Munch
Mont Olympos Diner, Yonkers, New York, United States · 19:00
Organised by The New York / New Jersey Polyamory Meetup Group
A family friendly social event for poly, poly friendly, and poly curious people.
View announcement on meetup.com (opens in a new tab) - Mon19Oct
Aperikinky
Stufanka Ristopub, Milan, Lombardy, Italy · 19:30
Organised by Aperikinky
An inclusive munch style aperitivo with no dress code, open to kinksters, newcomers and the curious.
View announcement on milanokinky.com (opens in a new tab) - Mon19Oct
Deviance Tampa Bay: Dungeons & Dragons & Deviance
Deviance Tampa Bay, Largo, Florida, United States · 20:00
Organised by Deviance Tampa Bay
A social game night for the community at a kink venue.
View announcement on meetup.com (opens in a new tab) - Tue20Oct
Foundation social at Shibari Adelaide
Shibari Adelaide, Adelaide, South Australia, Australia · 18:30
Organised by Love and Play
A community social linked to shibari practice.
View announcement on loveandplay.co (opens in a new tab) - Tue20Oct
Kraków Munch
Scena Berlin, Kraków, Lesser Poland, Poland · 20:00
A casual clothes on social for kinksters in a relaxed atmosphere, with normal dress and no play.
View announcement on stayhappening.com (opens in a new tab) - Tue20Oct
Newbie Munch
The Ox Pub, Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Organised by Encrypted Events
A monthly low pressure community social for people who are new to kink.
View announcement on encryptedevents.com (opens in a new tab) - Wed21Oct
International BDSM Munch
Venue shared on request, Berlin, Berlin, Germany · 18:00
Organised by BDSM-Berlin e.V.
A casual public munch for people interested in BDSM, with English as the primary language.
View announcement on bdsm-berlin.de (opens in a new tab) - Thu22Oct
Kecací čtvrtek
Atelier Strašnice / Ateliér, Prague, Prague, Czechia · 17:00
Organised by bdsmklub.cz
A regular Thursday social for kink and BDSM people in a vanilla setting, with no play required.
View announcement on bdsmklub.cz (opens in a new tab) - Thu22Oct
Berlin Community Munch
Venue shared on request, Berlin, Berlin, Germany · 19:00
Organised by Kink-Y
A relaxed community munch for the sex-positive scene, open to anyone wanting to connect at their own pace.
View announcement on kink-y.de (opens in a new tab) - Thu22Oct
Regular 4th Thursday Poly Munch Postponed due to COVID-19
Westway Diner, New York, New York, United States · 19:00
Organised by The New York / New Jersey Polyamory Meetup Group
A family friendly social event for poly, poly friendly, and poly curious people.
View announcement on meetup.com (opens in a new tab) - Thu22Oct
Rome BDSM Munch
AKA Roma, Rome, Lazio, Italy
Organised by AKA Roma
A relaxed social gathering for adults interested in BDSM and alternative relationships, with ordinary clothes welcome.
View announcement on aka-roma.it (opens in a new tab) - Thu22Oct
Spanish Munch
Venue shared on request, Barcelona, Catalonia, Spain
Organised by Munch BCN
An informal social meetup for the Barcelona kink crowd in a vanilla venue.
View announcement on thekinkytourist.com (opens in a new tab)