Kink & BDSM · Men, women & couples
Sounding Gifts for Him and Her
Sounding is a niche but deeply rewarding kink, and it rewards good equipment more than almost any other. This guide covers sounds designed for women, beginner and graduated sets for men, and the sterile lube and cleaning gear that keep it safe. Whoever you are buying for, choose surgical-grade steel or medical-grade silicone, start with smooth, simple shapes and never compromise on hygiene. If they are new to it, point them to our journal guide on getting started before the first session.
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- For HerCrimson Kink
Short Female Urethral Sound
A slim, polished stainless steel sound (4mm wide, 120mm long) made for the shorter female urethra. The right place to start for women curious about sounding.
- Best for BeginnersLovehoney
Beginner Silicone Sounds
Soft, flexible medical-grade silicone in slim sizes. More forgiving than steel and a gentle first step for anyone.
- Top PickExtreme Restraints
Graduated Stainless Steel Sound Set
Polished surgical steel in increasing widths so they can size up slowly over time. A classic set for men who know they enjoy it.
- For HimBondara
Steel Penis Plug
A short hollow plug with a crown ring that stays in place for longer wear. A popular next step after straight sounds.
- Lovehoney
Vibrating Sound
A smooth steel sound with a detachable bullet for gentle vibration. Adds a whole new layer of sensation for experienced players.
- AdvancedRegulation
Electro Sound
Designed to pair with an e-stim box for tingling, pulsing sensations. Strictly for experienced users who already know e-stim safety.
- Safety EssentialAmazon UK
Sterile Lubricant Sachets
Single-use sterile lube is essential for urethral play. Sachets mean a fresh, uncontaminated supply every session.
- Amazon UK
Nitrile Examination Gloves
Ideal for partner play and for keeping sounds clean while handling them. A must for medical-themed scenes too.
- Amazon UK
UV Toy Steriliser Box
Cleans steel and silicone toys between uses. Pair with boiling or a medical disinfectant for complete peace of mind.
- Lovehoney
Zipped Storage Case
Keeps a clean set sealed away from dust and other toys. A tidy finishing touch for any sounding gift.