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The Best Gay Gifts

From the club to the bedroom, these are the gifts we rate for gay and bi men. Expect leather and sportswear from specialist stores like Prowler and Regulation alongside prostate toys, plugs and the essentials every toy box needs. Great for a partner, a friend or treating yourself.

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  1. Top PickProwler

    Leather Chest Harness

    A classic leather harness that looks as good at the club as it does at home. Adjustable straps and solid metal fittings.

  2. BestsellerLovehoney

    Remote-Control Prostate Massager

    Curved to reach the P-spot with a wireless remote and multiple vibration patterns. Hands-free, or hand the remote to your partner.

  3. Prowler

    Jockstrap Multi-Pack

    A few jocks in different colours from the brands everyone wants to be seen in. An easy, fun gift that always gets worn.

  4. Bondara

    Silicone Cock Ring Set

    Three stretchy rings in different sizes for firmer, longer-lasting erections. Body-safe silicone and easy to clean.

  5. Lovehoney

    Vibrating Butt Plug

    A tapered plug with a flared base and a rechargeable motor, comfortable for long wear and great for foreplay.

  6. Lovehoney

    Anal Training Kit

    Three graduated plugs for building up comfortably at your own pace. A smart first step before bigger toys.

  7. Regulation

    Neoprene Sports Gear

    Fetish sportswear in neoprene and rubber, from singlets to shorts. A favourite at kink nights and Pride events.

  8. Bondara

    Dual-Density Realistic Dildo

    A firm core with a soft outer layer for a lifelike feel, plus a suction cup base for hands-free play.

  9. Prowler

    Long-Lasting Anal Lube

    A thicker formula that stays slick for longer. Check whether it is silicone or water-based before using it with silicone toys.

  10. NewRegulation

    Pup Play Hood

    A neoprene pup hood for exploring pet play, with a padded snout and bendable ears. Fun, comfortable and very photogenic.