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The Best Beginner Bondage Kits
New to bondage? Start here. These are the beginner bondage kits and first restraints we would hand to anyone trying it for the first time: comfortable, simple to use and quick to release. Before you play, talk through what you both want, agree a safe word and keep safety shears close by. Start light, check in often and build up from there.
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- Top PickLovehoney
Beginner Bondage Kit
Cuffs, a blindfold, a tickler and a tether in one box. An easy way to try a little of everything and find out what you both like.
- Ann Summers
Plush Wrist Cuffs
Soft, padded cuffs with Velcro fastening that come off in a second. The gentlest first step into restraint.
- BestsellerLovehoney
Under-Bed Restraint Kit
Straps run under the mattress with a cuff at each corner. Simple to set up and invisible when you are done.
- Bondara
Satin Blindfold
Taking away sight makes every touch feel bigger. A low-pressure way to explore trust before trying restraints.
- Bondara
Bondage Tape
Reusable tape that sticks only to itself, so there is no residue and nothing to tie. Great for quick wrists-together wraps.
- Sh! Women's Store
Soft Cotton Bondage Rope
Soft, easy-to-knot rope for simple wrist and ankle ties. Learn one or two basic ties before you start, and never tie around the neck.
- EssentialExtreme Restraints
Safety Shears
Blunt-tipped shears that cut through rope and tape fast without nicking skin. Keep them within reach every time you play.
- Extreme Restraints
Leather Wrist and Ankle Cuffs
A step up from plush cuffs once you know you enjoy restraint. Padded lining, sturdy buckles and D-rings for clipping together.
- Ann Summers
Feather Tickler and Soft Paddle Set
Two tools for exploring sensation, from barely-there teasing to a light, playful smack.
- Next StepExtreme Restraints
Adjustable Spreader Bar
For when you are ready for more. A padded bar with cuffs that holds legs or arms apart and opens up new positions.